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My opinions, observations and thoughts permeate this webpage so enjoy or don't read. True story.

 

Direct. Honest. Don’t hold in.

My husband and my friends have told me not to hold things in and address the issues head on. I think the last couple years I’ve improved greatly. Luckily lately the haven’t been many issues… until today. Time for honestly hour and to set some ish on fire. Oh well. At least I’m dealing with the mess right away.

We see things not as they are, we see them as we are.

Morrie Camhi (via observando)

People often belittle the place where they were born but heaven can be found in the most unlikely places.

Mitch Albom (via observando)

20 Ways to Maintain a healthy level of Insanity

I can’t wait to go down this list and try each one.

I despise liars. I know inevitably people will lie. I’m not denying the fact that I sometimes lie. But when people lie about dumb things and/or they lie in order to hide things/hurt you I am left in a state of disgust. 

Lately, my life in my mid-20’s has left me wondering when did it become so hard to make friends. Growing up it was easy because of classmates and neighbors. Even in college. Even when I did my year of service with City Year. 

However now, as a “grown-up” with a job. I don’t just willing go up to people like my neighbors and try to make friends. Co-workers are for work not necessarily friendship. And…thus far with the “friends” I’ve made through various activities, I’ve been consistenly let down to find that people lie. About dumb stuff. For no apparent reason. But then that makes me suspicious. Why lie for no reason? 

So then when I find out a “friend” has lied I start to question their intention for our friendship and anything else they say or do. Which generally is tiring and I’d rather not waste my time so I just stop communicating with them and then the problem is solved. 

However, these liars are making me friend-less!!!! So now I have another problem. Boo. 
Oh well. 

It would truly be a much more simple world if liars pants actually caught on fire. Myself included. Then maybe it would stop. Just a thought.

I despise liars. I know inevitably people will lie. I’m not denying the fact that I sometimes lie. But when people lie about dumb things and/or they lie in order to hide things/hurt you I am left in a state of disgust.

Lately, my life in my mid-20’s has left me wondering when did it become so hard to make friends. Growing up it was easy because of classmates and neighbors. Even in college. Even when I did my year of service with City Year.

However now, as a “grown-up” with a job. I don’t just willing go up to people like my neighbors and try to make friends. Co-workers are for work not necessarily friendship. And…thus far with the “friends” I’ve made through various activities, I’ve been consistenly let down to find that people lie. About dumb stuff. For no apparent reason. But then that makes me suspicious. Why lie for no reason?

So then when I find out a “friend” has lied I start to question their intention for our friendship and anything else they say or do. Which generally is tiring and I’d rather not waste my time so I just stop communicating with them and then the problem is solved.

However, these liars are making me friend-less!!!! So now I have another problem. Boo.
Oh well.

It would truly be a much more simple world if liars pants actually caught on fire. Myself included. Then maybe it would stop. Just a thought.